Marriage is a sacred institution that is meant to be a lifelong commitment between two individuals who share a deep and meaningful connection. However, finding the right person to spend the rest of your life with can be a daunting task, and many people often rush into a relationship without taking the time to pray and seek God's guidance.
Prayer is an essential part of the decision-making process, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. When we pray before making significant life decisions, we invite God to be a part of the process and guide us towards the right path. This is particularly true when it comes to choosing a life partner.When we fail to pray before marrying someone, it can have serious consequences. Without seeking God's guidance, we risk making choices that are not aligned with His plan for our lives. This can lead to a lifetime of unhappiness, strife, and even divorce.
In this blog post, we will explore the importance of praying before marrying someone and the consequences of not doing so. We will discuss how prayer can help us discern God's will for our lives and lead us towards a happy and fulfilling marriage. Whether you are currently single or in a relationship, this post will provide valuable insights into how prayer can help you make one of the most important decisions of your life.
The Importance of Praying Before Marrying Someone
Prayer can be a powerful tool when it comes to discerning God's will for our lives, including who we should marry. Here are some reasons why praying before getting married is so important:
It Helps Us to Discern God's Will
When we pray about a decision, we invite God to be a part of the process. By seeking His guidance, we can gain clarity about what He wants for our lives. When it comes to choosing a life partner, praying can help us discern whether the person we are considering is the right match for us according to God's plan.
It Helps Us to Avoid Making Hasty Decisions
Without prayer, we may be tempted to make decisions based on our feelings or the opinions of others. However, when we pray, we are less likely to rush into a decision without carefully considering all of the factors involved. Prayer helps us to slow down, reflect, and make wise choices.
It Helps Us to Build a Strong Foundation for Our Marriage
Prayer is an essential component of a healthy and successful marriage. By praying together as a couple, we can build a strong foundation for our relationship that is rooted in faith and trust in God. When we start our marriage on this foundation, we are better equipped to weather the storms that will inevitably come our way.
The Consequences of Not Praying Before Marrying Someone
If we fail to pray before marrying someone, we risk making a decision that is not in line with God's will. Here are some of the consequences of not praying before getting married:
1. We May End Up With the Wrong Person
Without prayer, we may be drawn to someone for the wrong reasons, such as physical attraction or financial stability. This can lead us to choose a partner who is not well-suited to us or who may not share our values and beliefs. In the long run, this can lead to an unhappy and unfulfilling marriage.
2. We May Struggle to Build a Strong Marriage
Marriage requires hard work, commitment, and sacrifice. Without a foundation of faith and prayer, we may struggle to build a strong and enduring relationship with our spouse. This can lead to conflicts, misunderstandings, and a breakdown of trust over time.
3. We May Experience Painful Consequences
Marriage is a serious commitment, and when we enter into it without seeking God's guidance, we risk experiencing painful consequences. These may include infidelity, divorce, and even abuse. By praying before getting married, we can avoid these potential pitfalls and build a healthy, happy, and fulfilling life together.
Final Word
Prayer is an essential component of a successful and fulfilling marriage. By seeking God's guidance before getting married, we can make wise choices that are aligned with His plan for our lives. On the other hand, failing to pray before getting married can lead to serious consequences that can have a lasting impact on our lives. As we embark on the journey of finding a life partner, let us remember to seek God's guidance and trust in His plan for our lives.
As a Christian, rushing into marriage can have additional consequences that can affect your spiritual life and relationship with God. Here are some of the consequences of rushing into marriage as a Christian:
Lack of Spiritual Compatibility: Marriage is not only a physical and emotional commitment but also a spiritual one. When couples rush into marriage, they may not have enough time to discern if they are spiritually compatible. This can lead to conflicts in beliefs, values, and practices, which can impact their spiritual life.
Disobedience to God's Will: As Christians, we believe that God has a plan for our lives, including our relationships. Rushing into marriage without seeking God's guidance and waiting for His timing can lead to disobedience to His will. This can cause confusion, anxiety, and can even lead to sin.
Negative Impact on Witness: Christians are called to be a witness to the world and to represent Christ in our relationships. Rushing into marriage without proper discernment and preparation can negatively impact our witness, causing others to question our faith and trust in God's guidance.
Strained Relationship with God: A rushed marriage can cause stress and tension in the relationship, which can lead to a strained relationship with God. When our relationship with our spouse is not thriving, it can be difficult to maintain a close relationship with God.
Consequences for Future Generations: Rushing into marriage can have consequences for future generations. It can impact our children's spiritual lives and relationships, causing them to struggle with the same issues we faced, leading to generational curses.
It is essential to take the time to discern God's will and build a strong foundation for our relationship before getting married. Here are some steps you can take:
Set aside time for prayer: Dedicate some time each day to pray about your decision. This could be in the morning, evening, or at any other time that works for you.
Be honest with God: When you pray, be honest with God about your desires, fears, and concerns. Ask Him to guide you and help you to discern His will for your life.
Seek guidance from trusted advisors: Seek advice from trusted mentors, friends, or family members who share your faith and can provide wise counsel.
Listen to your inner voice: Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings as you pray. Often, God speaks to us through our intuition or inner voice.
Trust in God's timing: Remember that God's timing is perfect, and His plans for our lives are always for our good. Trust that He will guide you towards the right person at the right time.
Prayer is a personal and intimate experience, so don't be afraid to approach it in a way that feels authentic and meaningful to you. Ultimately, the most important thing is to seek God's guidance and trust in His plan for your life.
HERE IS MAY'S BIBLE STUDY PLAN - BLESSINGS & SOAK BIBLE STUDY PLAN
GOD BLESS YOU
This prayer challenge is for those who desire to get married. The Word of God says in Genesis 5:2: 2 Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. From the beginning God has ordained that mankind should be in pairs. Man was not meant to be alone and this the same applies to women. So God created them as male and female to love, care and help each other. We have compiled this marriage prayer challenge for singles, to guide you as you pray to be connected to your God ordained spouse.Praying for marriage is very important because the world we live in is filled with fake men and women, wolves in sheep’s clothing, people who crawl their way into your life , waste your time, use you, abuse you and reject you to ruin your Christian testimony. That is why we must pray for divine guidance as we go about our marital adventure. We must pray to meet the right spouse so that we can be fulfilled in marriage and enjoy our marriage the way God intended it to be from the beginning. Remember, it is better to remain single than to marry the wrong person.
Instructions
*Choose a day to start your prayer challenge and pray them daily. If you miss one day ,you can pray that day's prayers the following day, there is no need to restart the challenge.
*Ask God for forgiveness of sins.
*Set a time/times to pray, you can spread the prayers through out the day.
*Have your notebook or prayer journal and Bible with you.
*Confess and meditate on the Scriptures.
*Write down what you hear in your spirit, your dreams, your visions, your revelations ,solutions etc.
*Praise and worship.
*Thank God for answered prayers.
Testimony 1
Concerning my prayer request to settle down, want to appreciate our women of prayers, truly God answers prayers and he has answered ours. I am getting married this year 2021, Glory be to God. Thanks so much for your prayers, God bless you all. Thank you Jesus.....M.S
Testimony 2
Good afternoon
I want to come and Thank the Lord for my testimony. I got engaged on Saturday to a wonderful man. I have been waiting for this for a while. To my sisters who desire the same blessing, pray. You are next in line for a testimony. Your sister in Christ. Q.C
Testimony 3
I sent a prayer request last year for a godly spouse. I told you I would come back with a testimony. I am here to testify that I got married, Won’t He do it? Glory to God.T.K
Scriptures
Genesis 24:1-4
1 And Abraham was old, and well stricken in age: and the Lord had blessed Abraham in all things. 2 And Abraham said unto his eldest servant of his house, that ruled over all that he had, Put, I pray thee, thy hand under my thigh: 3 And I will make thee swear by the Lord, the God of heaven, and the God of the earth, that thou shalt not take a wife unto my son of the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I dwell: 4 But thou shalt go unto my country, andto my kindred, and take a wife unto my son Isaac.
Mark 11:24
24 Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that yereceive them, and ye shall have them.
Prayer
Heavenly Father We come Before Your Throne of Grace Worshipping and Praising You Today. You are The Everlasting God. Your Reign is Supreme. You Reign in Heaven and On Earth. You Are the Mighty God and the Living God. You Are Jehovah Sabaoth the Lord of Hosts. You Are Mighty and Strong in Battle. You are Alpha and Omega and the Creator of Allmankind. You Are Our Refuge and A Very present Help in the time of trouble. You are The AllSufficient God. You are a Sun and Shield and The Author of Eternal. Lord we Lift up our Eyes To You because from You Cometh Our Help. So Right Now Lord We stand against Every Counterfeit Spouse and Counterfeit Blessing that Will come in this Season to keep us from Getting to the Real Promise You have Before Us. Lord Give Us the Strength we need to endure pass the Temptation. Lord Strengthen Our Hearts so that we won’t Settle Beforehand. Lord Reveal Unto us in Our Dreams and Visions The Secrets and Mysteries Regarding Our Lives. Lord Cover Our Ear-gates and Our Eye-gates so that we May not Sin against You and get off Course in this Season. Lord Strengthen Our Hands so that We May Continue to fight for our Destiny. Lord Cover our Minds in this Season and Show Us Truth. We Seek Light and Truth in this Season Lord. Lord Show Us who Our Real Spouses are so that we may not be confused and Miss Our Blessing in this Season. Lord We Seek Your Will for our lives and not Our Own. Lord Establish Your Perfect Will in Our Lives. Lord Allow Our Lives in the Spiritual Realm to Reflect Our Lives in the Natural. Enlighten our Understanding, and shine light on our Situation. Lord Warn us beforehand when a Counterfeit is Approaching and Give us The Power To Break past all emotional Barriers that will arise to make us Settle. Lord Keep Us Single Minded and Focused in this Season as we Fight For OurReal Spouse and our future. Right Now in the Mighty Name of Jesus We Release the Fire of the Holy Ghost against Every Demonic Dream that was sent to detour Us onto the Wrong Path. We Bind up Every Counterfeit Spouse that will show up In Our Dreams in the Night Season. Every demonic Spirit harboring around our door of Promises be moved Now and Bescattered in the Mighty Name of Jesus. Every Unfriendly friend harboring around for our Demise be brought to derision. Anything that the enemy will use to hinder Our breakthroughs let it be destroyed. Anybody sitting on Our promotions we Unseat you by the fire of the Holy Ghost in the Mighty Name of Jesus. We Destroy the Works of the Enemy Operating against our God Ordained Marriages. We Send Confusion into the Camp of the Enemy. We Destroy and Severe any Soul ties and any Emotional Soul ties with People From the Past that will hinder our Marriages in the Future. Lord Cut off any UnGodly Linkage attached to Our Future Spouses. Lord Reveal Counterfeits Unto them and Give them strength in this Season as Well. Keep their Minds Lord and Help them to Endure through temptation as well in this Season. Now Lord Send our Real Spouse Speedily and give us the discernment we Need to Distinguish between the Real and The Fake. Lord Cover Us in this Season and Direct Our Paths. Lord Order our Steps and Allow Time to be on our side in this Season. Allow everything in Our Lives in the Natural to Align Up with Our Lives That You Ordained In the Spiritual. Give Us Double Favor with You and With Man in this Season. Lord We Surrender our Lives to You Today and We ask you to intervene on Our Behalf in this Season. Don’t allow us to miss our Blessing and Promise in this Season. Lord we Love You and We Adore You. We Know that All Power is in Your hands and we ask You to Release Your Power on our behalf this day. We Surrender our Marriages To You Today oh Lord and We Seal this Prayer off with the Blood Of Jesus. In Jesus Mighty Name We Pray. Amen and Amen.
Day 1 *Taking Authority*
Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness
Scriptures
Proverbs 18:22
22 Who so findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.
Prayer Points
1.O LORD, anoint my tongue with Your Holy fire and power in the name of Jesus.
2. I plead the blood of Jesus over my life and family’s life in Jesus’ name.
3. O LORD, dispatch Your mighty angels to assist me today in Jesus’ name.
4. I take authority over the spirit of fear; I bind and cast you out in the name of Jesus.
5. Holy Spirit, charge my tongue with Your fire and power in Jesus name.
6. I pull down the flag of satan over my life in the name of Jesus.
7. I speak destruction to wicked powers controlling my heavens in the name of Jesus.
to every battle from my place of birth in Jesus name.
8.I speak destruction to every enchantment and divination against my destiny by the power in the blood of Jesus.
9.I speak destruction to powers of dream manipulation in the name of Jesus.
10.I speak destruction to any spiritual marriage and their agents in Jesus’ name.
11.I speak destruction to evil rituals and sacrifices offered against my life in by the hammer of Jehovah.
12.Evil gates standing against me in the spirit , I destroy you now by the power in the name of Jesus.
I cover these prayer points un the precious blood Jesus.
Day 2 *Godly Spouse*
Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness
Scriptures
John 1:1-5: In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God. All things were made by him; and without him was not anything made that was made. In him was life; and the life was the light of men. And the light shines in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.
Prayer
Father, I thank You for this divine opportunity to pray and recapture all that has been stolen from my marital destiny in the name of Jesus. I speak destruction unto powers manipulating the dust of the earth against my life in Jesus name. I speak destruction to evil blood covenants crying against me in the spirit in Jesus‘ name. I speak destruction to spirits fighting against my destiny in Jesus’ name. Every consultation with dark spirits against my life, I command you to backfire in the name of Jesus. I speak destruction to any stronghold of idolatry in my foundation in Jesus name. I speak destruction to the clock, calendar and timetable of untimely death in the mighty name of Jesus. I speak destruction to hidden demonic objects in my possession in the name of Jesus. LORD, let Your axe of fire destroy the most pressing problems in my life in the name of Jesus. Every evil voice speaking darkness over my life, be silenced permanently in the name of Jesus. Let the Voice of the Blood of Jesus thunder against destiny attackers in the name of Jesus. I speak destruction to every chain of sexual slavery in my life in Jesus name. I speak destruction to powers quoting demonic scriptures against me in Jesus' name. I speak destruction to every curse issued against my life and family in Jesus name. I cover my life and family with the blood of Jesus; let every human spirit projected against me be arrested in Jesus' name. Let the hedge and wall of fire from the Lord surround me and my family in Jesus' powerful name. O God of suddenlies, please answer us suddenly in the name of Jesus. Father Lord, thank You for answering our prayers in this prayer challenge. Amen.
Prayer Points
1. Oh Lord, in the beginning You created them male and female, therefore I decree today that heavens shall locate my helpmate and be connect with me in Jesus' name.
2. Oh Lord, Your Word says it is not good that I am alone, connect me with my help-mate today in Jesus’ mighty name.
3. Just like You solved Adam‘s marital challenges without struggle, Oh Lord, solve my marital problem today and connect me with my godly spouse in Jesus‘ name.
4. Jehovah It is Your command that I leave my father and mother to be joined to my wife (or husband). Father bring this word to pass in my life this month in the amazing name of Jesus.
5. Oh Lord! Show me my Isaac (Rebekah) today. Connect me with my husband (wife) in Jesus' name.
6. Oh Lord, I know that You can do all things, connect me with my ordained husband/wife before this month runs out in Jesus' name.
7. Jesus Christ the son of David, have mercy on me over this issue in THE POWERFUL NAME OF JESUS.
8. Every evil character that may be hindering my marital breakthrough I destroy it by fire by fire in Jesus‘ powerful name.
9. Every evil association that is misrepresenting me before my God ordained spouse I disconnect myself now in Jesus‘ name.
10. Every evil pattern of delayed marriage in my family I separate myself by the power in the blood of Jesus.
11. I come against every spirit of marital disappointment and horrid marital curses in Jesus’name.
12. Oh Lord, change my location and lead me to where I will meet my husband (wife) in Jesus‘ name.
13. Jehovah God, open my eyes to see my bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh in Jesus’ name.
14. Father God, fight against those that are fighting against my marital destiny in Jesus‘ mighty name.
15. Father, I disconnect myself from any unfruitful relationship that is hindering my marital destiny in the name of Jesus.
Day 3 *Spiritual Warfare
Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness
Scripture : Psalm 138:8 The Lord will perfect that which concerneth me: thy mercy, O Lord, endureth for ever:forsake not the works of thine own hands. Proverbs 12:4 4 A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. Declaration The Word of God says I shall decree a thing and it shall be established. Therefore, I decree that my godly spouse be released from any anti- marriage cage, in the mighty name of our Lord Jesus Christ. I command all forces battling against my godly spouse to be bound in Jesus’ name. I tread upon the serpents and scorpions assigned to abort my marital breakthroughs. Let the angels of the living God pursue and destroy every power constructing an evil cage for my godly spouse in Jesus’ name. Prayer Points 1. I command every spirit of strife and confusion to depart from me in Jesus’ name. 2 .You spirit of Egypt, release my godly spouse in the mighty name of Jesus. 3. Let every family cage holding my godly spouse in bondage receive the fire of God and be destroyed in the name of Jesus. 4. Let every cage of sexual perversion holding my godly spouse in bondage receive the fire of God and be destroyed in the name of Jesus Christ. 5. Let every cage of sorcerers, enchanters and star hunters keeping my godly spouse in bondage receive the thunder fire of God and be destroyed in the name of Jesus. 6. Let every cage of witchcraft holding my godly spouse in bondage receive the fire of God and be destroyed in the name of Jesus. 7. Let every foundational altar caging my godly spouse receive the fire of God and burn to ashes in the name of Jesus. 8. Let the blood of Jesus Christ wash away every anti-marriage stamp and label from my life in the mighty name of Jesus. 9. Let every demonic family interference be cut off completely in the name of Jesus. 10. Holy Spirit, overshadow my godly spouse and birth in him/her a desire to follow Your leading in Jesus’ name. 11. I command all stubborn anti-marriage yokes attached to my godly spouse to break, in the name of Jesus. 12. Let all the effects of past entanglements be cleared away from the life of my godly spouse in Jesus’ name. 13. I bind the stubborn pursuers militating against my marriage in the name of Jesus. 14. I command any veil of ignorance and hatred in the heart of my godly spouse against me to be roasted by fire in the name of Jesus. 15. Let the wicked spirits polluting the heart and mind of my godly spouse against me be bound in the name of Jesus. 16. You my godly spouse, I call you out from the cage of the enemy; jump out of the prison of darkness and receive your divine senses back in the mighty name of Jesus. 17. O Lord, put the love for me in the heart of my godly spouse by the blood of Jesus. 18. O Lord, reveal to me every secret I need to know for my godly spouse to appear speedily in Jesus’ name. 19. Let the joy of the enemy over my marital situation be converted to sorrow in Jesus’ name. 20. I declare and decree my godly spouse will NOT follow any evil family pattern laid down by his/her ancestors in the name of Jesus. 21. Let all activities of wicked spirits from the air, water, land and family idols release their grip upon my godly spouse in Jesus’ name. STRESSED OUT? CLIK HERE
Day 4 *Self Deliverance* Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness Praise & Worship. Scriptures Ecclesiastes 4:9-11 9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. 10 For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. 11 Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?
Prayer Points 1.Thank God for His miraculous hand upon your life. 2.Confess every sin of un-forgiveness, bitterness, anxiety, negative thinking and forgive anyone who might have hurt or disappointed you ( please note that this is a crucial prayer and you must spend time on it). 3. I renounce, break and release myself from every evil pattern of marital failure in the name of Jesus. 4. I reject and refuse to follow any evil marriage pattern in the name of Jesus. 5. Father, I ask You in the name of Jesus Christ, to send Your angels into Your storehouses on my behalf, and let them bring to me favor, provisions, blessings and materials needed for a successful marriage. 6. I bind, plunder and render to naught every spirit of procrastination in the name of Jesus. 7. O Lord, unite those that will bless me and keep those who will curse me away in Jesus’ mighty name. 8. Lord, let Your Holy angels surround my spouse and let Your wall of fire be built around us and let the blood of Jesus cover us every step of the way in Jesus’ name. 9. All evil arrows fired against us, You are completely neutralized in Jesus’ name. 10. Father, let the spirit of joy, liberty, grace and love fill us to the brim by the power in the blood of Jesus. 11. Lord, give me the power to avoid arguments and unnecessary fights in Jesus’ name. 12. I declare that the arrows of envy and strife will not land in our relationship in the name of Jesus. 13. O Lord, convert all trials and tests I’ve ever been through to testimonies , praise reports and triumphs in Jesus’ name. 14. O Lord, convert every past failure in my life to success. 15. O Lord, convert every frustration in my life to fulfilment. 16. O Lord, convert every pain in my life to divine pleasure. 17. O Lord, convert every poverty in my life to blessing. 18. O Lord, convert every mistake in my life to perfection. 19. O Lord, convert every sickness in my life to divine health. 20. O Lord, shield our relationship from enemies who appear as friends in Jesus’ name. 21. O Lord permanently put a stop to every problem with long tail hunting my marital plans in Jesus’ name. I seal this prayer with the blood of Jesus.
Day 5 *Territorial Warfare Prayer* Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness Praise & Worship. Scriptures :
Jeremiah 1: 8-10
8 Do not be afraid of them, for I will be with you to protect you. I, the Lord, have spoken!"
9 Then the Lord reached out, touched my lips, and said to me, "Listen, I am giving you the words you must speak.
10 Today I give you authority over nations and kingdoms to uproot and to pull down, to destroy and to overthrow, to build and to plant."
Genesis 12:7 Then the Lord appeared to Abram and said, “To your offspring I will give this land.” So he built there an altar to the Lord, who had appeared to him.
Genesis 17:8 “And I will give to you and to your offspring after you the land of your sojournings, all the land of Canaan, for an everlasting possession, and I will be their God.”
Genesis 2:18 Then God said: “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner.”
Prayer Points 1. On this day, I take authority over every contrary power in my environment working against my marital breakthrough in the name of Jesus. 2. Power of God, deliver me from environmental demotion and suppression in the name of Jesus. 3. I pull down every controlling power over my environment in the name of Jesus. 4. Every local prince of Persia hindering my marital breakthrough, I pull you down in the name of Jesus. 5. O Lord, let Your angels pursue my pursuers day and night in the name of Jesus. 6. I dismantle every territorial altar ministering against my marital breakthrough in the name of Jesus. 7. I charge my environment with the blood of Jesus and the fire of God in the name of Jesus. 8. Let every stronghold and satanic structures in my environment set up to hinder my marital success be scattered by fire in the name of Jesus. 9. I take spiritual authority over my area where I am now in the mighty name of Jesus. 10. I speak destruction and confusion into the camp of evil territorial powers in the name of Jesus. 11. My environment, I command you to become too hot for territorial demons to occupy in the name of Jesus. 12. By your mighty power, O LORD, barricade and protect my marital destiny in Jesus' mighty name. 13. Let my environment refuse to listen to the voice of the enemies of my marriage in the name of Jesus. 14. Fire of the Holy Ghost, saturate my environment and bring forth testimonies for my marriage in the name of Jesus. 15. I bind and cast out every territorial power working against my marriage in this place in the name of Jesus. 16. I command the evil power hindering godly marriages in this environment to crash and burn to ashes in the name of Jesus. 17. Every evil set back that has been fired to hinder the manifestation of my marital blessings, be destroyed by the fire of God in the name of Jesus. 18. Every satanic spirit that will not leave me alone so I won't marry , receive the judgement of God in the name of Jesus.
19. I declare and decree that I am free from all bondage in the name of Jesus Christ.
20. Thank God for answering your prayers. End with high praises unto the LORD.
Day 6 *Breaking Spiritual & Soul-ties* Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness Praise and worship Scriptures
Proverbs 5:18-19 18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. 19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. Prayer Points 1. By the authority in the blood of Jesus Christ, I divorce and renounce any marriage to spirit husbands and wives in the name of Jesus. 2. Let the thunder fire of God burn to ashes the wedding gown, ring, photographs, and other materials used for the marriage in the spiritual realm in the name of Jesus. 3. Let the fire of God burn to ashes every evil marriage certificate with my name on it, in the name of Jesus. 4. I break every blood and soul-tie covenants with sexual spirits, in the name of Jesus. 5. Let the thunder fire of God burn to ashes the strange spiritual children born to the spiritual marriage in the mighty name of Jesus. 6. You foul spirits tormenting my life and hindering my earthly marriage from manifesting, I bind you with hot chains and fetters of God, and I cast you out of my life into the deep pit, and I command you NOT to interfere with my life again, in Jesus’ name. 7. I return to you every property of yours in my possession, including the dowry or whatever was used for the marriage and covenants, in the name of Jesus. 8. With the blood of Jesus I drain myself of all evil materials deposited in my body as a result of sexual relationships in the dream and in the physical in Jesus’ name. 9. O Lord, send The Holy Ghost fire into my foundation and burn all unclean things deposited in it by demonic spirits, in the name of Jesus. 10. O Lord, purge me with the blood of Jesus of everything deposited in my womb to prevent me from having children on earth, in Jesus’ name. 11. Lord, repair and restore every damage done to any part of my body by spirit husbands /wives in the name of Jesus. 12. I reject and cancel every curse, evil pronouncement, spell, jinx, enchantment, bewitchment, and incantation placed upon me by intersex spirits in Jesus’ name. 13. I take back by force all my earthly belongings in the custody of intersex spirits in Jesus’ name. 14. I command these foul spirits to permanently turn their back on me and depart from my life, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. 15. I soak myself in the blood of Jesus and cancel the evil marks or writings placed on me in the name of Jesus. 16. I set myself free from every the stronghold, domineering power and bondage of demonic spirits, in the name of Jesus. 17. I paralyze any remote-control power and work used to delay my earthly marriage in the mighty name of Jesus. 18. LORD, I thank You for victory.
Cover these prayers with the blood of Jesus Christ.
Day 7 *Counterfeit Spouses*
Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness Praise and worship Scriptures
1 John 4:1
Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.
2 Corinthians 11:14-15
No wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. Therefore it is not surprising if his servants also disguise themselves as servants of righteousness, whose end will be according to their deeds.
Prayer Points
1. Holy Spirit, lead me to the right place and help me to develop friendship that will guide me into an relationship with a godly man/woman in Jesus’ name.
2. Oh Lord, help me to know the right from wrong, teach me to wait patiently for the person you have for me in Jesus’ name.
3. Open my inner eyes to see Lord. Proverbs 18:22 say he that finds a wife, find a good thing and obtains favour from you, Oh Lord, let my godly spouse find me so we can be together in Jesus’ name.
4. Oh Lord, make me the right wife/husband in all aspect for my godly spouse, help me to grow in faith and character in Jesus’ name.
5. Oh Lord, give me the grace to be mature in thoughts, speech, actions, understanding, experiences, wisdom which will make me good spouse and draw the right spouse to my life in Jesus’ name.
6. Oh Lord, prepare me in every way that is important to become a woman that the right man will pursue to be his wife in Jesus’ name.
7. My Father, my God, guide me to a man/woman who fears you, filled with your spirit and the one who will love me with your love in Jesus’ name.
8. Oh Lord, I ask for the grace to see my godly ordained spouse as you see him/her, learning to look at the heart of the man/woman I intend to marry than their physical appearance in Jesus’ name.
9. I declare and decree that I will not miss my spouse due to wrong mentality in Jesus’ name.
10. Oh Lord, help me to be sexually pure until the wedding day in Jesus' mighty name.
11. Father, I ask for the Holy Spirit and the strength to control all fleshly desires outside marriage in Jesus’ name.
12. Oh Lord, help me with the exact spouse that you have in store for me and make me have a marriage that will bless me for the rest of my life in Jesus’ name.
13. Oh Lord, wherever my spouse is, give him/her the grace to be godly, help him to live for You, seek You and be on fire for You in Jesus’ name.
14. Oh Lord, fill my future spouse and I with Your spirit, give us the grace to seek Your righteousness, also, make all these things including a successful marriage be added to us in Jesus’ name.
15. Oh Lord, I decree divine acceleration into the process of receiving my appointed spouse, speed up the process Lord in the mighty name of Jesus.
16. Oh LORD, establish our home in Your Holy Word in Jesus’ name.
17. Sweet Lord, send forth Your warring angels to battle and release my spouse wherever he/she is in the name of Jesus.
18. Oh LORD, I reject the provision of counterfeit spouse by the enemy in the mighty name of Jesus.
19. Oh LORD, I destroy the flow of all inherited marital problems and curses into my life in the mighty name of Jesus.
20. Oh Lord, fill my divinely-ordained spouse with respect for men/women and give him/her the grace to be compassionate towards protecting men/women from all harm, trouble and afflictions in Jesus’ name.
21. Blood of Jesus, wash away every anti-marriage garments, label, stamp and links off my life in Jesus’ name.
22. Oh God, I thank You for providing these prayer points and as I pray them, there shall be sudden testimonies, in Jesus name.
23. Counterfeit relationship ravaging my life, be removed now, in Jesus' name.
24. Satanic spouses blocking me from meeting my God ordained spouse, clear away by fire of the Holy Spirit, in Jesus name.
25. I declare and decree that I shall not walk into the wrong relationship, in Jesus' name.
26. If I am already in the wrong relationship, by the power of the Holy Ghost, Lord help me to pull out now, in Jesus' mighty name.
27. Every negative relationship that can lead to spiritual and physical death, be separated from me, in Jesus' name.
28. Anything in my foundation attracting negative and counterfeit spouses and time wasters into my life, be uprooted by fire, in the name of Jesus.
29. Wolves in sheep clothing that have been sent to me to pose as my divine spouse in my life to waste my time, be exposed by fire, in Jesus' name.
30. Evil magnets holding my life down with the wrong spouse, oh God arise and deliver me by fire, in Jesus' name.
31. Every sin I have committed as a result of this matter, oh God my father, have mercy on me, in Jesus name.
32. Thank God for answers to your prayers.
Day 8 *Marital Delay*
Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness Praise and worship Scriptures
Daniel 9:19
O Lord, hear! O Lord, forgive! O Lord, listen and take action! For Your own sake, O my God, do not delay, because Your city and Your people are called by Your name.”
Prayer Points
1. O God of the suddenlies, arise and intervene suddenly in my life in Jesus' name. 2. Let there be a divine rearrangement in the heavens to bring about the purpose of the LORD concerning my marriage in Jesus' name. 3. Every spiritual enemy of my full-scale laughter, fall down and die in the name of Jesus.
4. Satanic agents assigned to manipulate me out of God's blessings, receive double frustration in Jesus' name. 5. O God arise and frustrate the tokens of the liars concerning my life in Jesus' name. 6. Any evil word programmed into the stars against my destiny, be cancelled by the power in the blood of Jesus.
7. Let every handwriting of darkness against my progress be wiped off by the blood of Jesus. 8. Any evil message written in the cycle of the moon against my marital destiny, be cancelled and be nullified by the blood of Jesus. 9. Every satanically-inspired attack programmed against my staff of bread, be aborted in the name of Jesus. 10. Every environmental conspiracy to keep me single and isolated, be scattered by fire in the mighty name of Jesus. 11. I throw down and destroy every satanic roadblock mounted against my destiny in the spirit realm in Jesus' name. 12. Every goliath and pharaoh working against my marital breakthroughs, be disgraced by fire in the name of Jesus. 13. Every cauldron of witchcraft speaking against my marriage, break and scatter in the mighty name of Jesus. 14. Let every evil expectation concerning my upcoming marriage receive double name. disappointment in Jesus' 15. O Lord arise and scatter the plans of the wicked concerning my life in Jesus' name. 16. Every serpent assigned to manipulate me in the dream,O Sword of the Lord, arise and cut them to pieces in the mighty name of Jesus. 17. I unseat by fire every power exerting evil influence over my future spouse in the name of Jesus.
18. I break every ancient law keeping my godly spouse away from me in the name of Jesus. 19. I lift up the banner of the blood of Jesus against every activity of wicked spirits during this prayer challenge in Jesus' powerful name. 20. Any power claiming evil ownership over my life, I nullify your claims by the blood of Jesus. 21. Any arrow fired into the ground in order to divert my destiny, I cancel your power and render your assignment null and void by the power in the blood of the Lamb. 22. You evil altars militating against my marriage, catch fire now and burn to ashes in the name of Jesus.
Day 9 *Marital Delay*
Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness Praise and worship Scriptures
Daniel 9:19
O Lord, hear! O Lord, forgive! O Lord, listen and take action! For Your own sake, O my God, do not delay, because Your city and Your people are called by Your name.”
Prayer Points
1.Let the sword of the LORD begin to move through the land and destroy every satanic altar against my destiny in Jesus' name. 2. Every word with satanic anointing spoken concerning my marriage, you shall not stand neither shall you come to pass in the name of Jesus. 3. Every curse issued by ancestral powers against my marital destiny be broken now in the name of Jesus. 4. Every curse issued over my family by local and international satanic agents, be broken, be cancelled and be nullified by the power in the blood of Jesus. 5. Every curse issued against my head by anyone, knowingly or unknowingly, be broken, be cancelled and be nullified by the power in the blood of Jesus.
6. O LORD, cause my lost glory and virtues to be restored by fire in the name of Jesus.
7. Every spiritual assassin unleashed against me in the dream, I command your weapons to backfire in the name of Jesus. 8. Thou covenants of darkness strengthening the hand of satan against my life, be broken, be cancelled and be rendered null and void in Jesus' name. 9. Thou serpents of darkness unleashed against marriages, receive divine judgment by fire in the name of Jesus. 10. O Sword of the LORD, arise and cut in pieces every leviathan of darkness working against my marital destiny in Jesus' name. 11. Every local and international occult group gathered against my progress be scattered by fire and thunder in the name of Jesus. 12. Thank the Lord for answering our prayers.
Day 10 *Thanksgiving* Confess any sin & Ask God for forgiveness Begin with prolonged praise and worship.
Scriptures Mark 11:24: 24 Therefore I say unto you, What things so-ever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them. Proverbs 18:22: 22 Who so findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord. Prayer Points 1 .Father, I thank You for helping me in this Prayer Challenge. 2 .Lord, I thank You for saving, healing, and restoring me. 3 .I thank You for baptizing me in the Holy Ghost. 4 .I thank You for all the ways you have intervened in my life in Jesus name. 5 .Thank You for lifting me up when I fall. 6 .Thank You for sending me the Comforter to comfort my heart always. 7 .Thank You for your divine agenda for my life. 8 .Thank You for the soon-to-appear godly spouse. 9 .Thank You for helping me to recognize him/her. 10 .Thank You for removing spiritual blindness from my heart. 11 .Thank You for drawing me deeper into prayer and fellowship with you. 12 .Thank You for giving Your angels charge over me and my godly spouse. 13 .Thank You for supplying all my needs according to your riches in glory by Christ Jesus. 14 .Thank You for flooding my heart with the light of Heaven. 15 .Thank You for taking away sickness and disease from me. 16 .Thank You for your healing power upon my body, soul and spirit. 17 .Thank You for aborting the plans of the enemy against my marriage. 18 .Thank You for not allowing the enemy to rejoice over my marital life. 19 .Thank You for You alone are great and greatly to be praised. 20 .Thank You for your wonderful love. 21 .Thank You for your faithfulness and marvellous works in my life. 22 .Thank You for you are my fortress and refuge in times of trouble. 23 .Thank You for lifting me out of the depths of frustration and hopelessness. 24 .Thank You for preserving me and for keeping my feet from being taken. 25 .Thank You for turning curses into blessings in my life. 26 .Thank You for always causing me to triumph in Christ Jesus. 27 .Thank You for giving me my marriage. 28 .Thank You for your greatness, power, glory, splendor and righteousness. 29.Thank You for my soon-to-be-announced wedding. 30. Thank You for restoring the milk and honey into my life in Jesus mighty name. Amen. Seal Your Prayer with an offering. May You Come back with a testimony in Jesus' name. Kindly Like, Comment, Share, Pray.
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